Friday, October 31, 2025

Arizona State of Mind


Experienced a bit of a rite of passage last night when I met up with my only nephew for the very first time as "adults" -- no parental units within thousands of miles! It was awfully sweet. 


AJ, who is pursuing a degree in construction management in Tempe while his little sister just began studying forensic psychology in Vermont, is dating the lovely Natalie (also in white), whose childhood friend Ava moved to NYC after graduating from Arizona State. While it's true that they "grow up too fast," I can't imagine his having turned out a more thoughtful and compassionate straight white man, which god knows the world needs more of. My sister and her husband did good. xo


Big shout-out to Sarabeth's and Scarlet on the Upper West Side, both of which provided exceptional service. 


It's always interesting to hear what people recall from their childhoods, so I was tickled last night when AJ hearkened back to when he was "scared" one Halloween of Grandma, whose scary mishap with her SUV I wrote about back in 2007 -- the same make of vehicle that 11 years later allowed her and my stepfather to live through this. Woman is Built Ford Tough! 

Remains of the Day (10/31)























Thursday, October 30, 2025

Caption Me

 

I need your help, guys. Do any of you remember a real photo of two gay men that circulated 10-15 years ago that mimicked the 1957 shot of Sophia Loren and Jayne Mansfield, famously taken at a dinner in Beverly Hills at Romanoff's to welcome the Italian star to Hollywood? The "Jayne" in it, as I recall, is wearing a light blue dress shirt and has sandy/auburn hair. I can't even remember what I wanted it for, but I'm so OCD that I won't be able to sleep unless someone sends it to me. Until then, here's an AI-generated attempt. While I'm not a fan of artificial intelligence, I wouldn't kick the blond out of bed for not being human! 

On the Rag, Vol. 881


Fran Tomas, Christian Hogue, Renan Pitanga, Alex Cancel, Crystal Waters and more in this week's rag 'n' mag roundup BELOW.

Wednesday, October 29, 2025

Remains of the Day (10/29)

 
















Mug Shot WednesdayAll is forgiven, cutie




Hot Cat of the Day: When you're almost as big a boy as Dad


Tuesday, October 28, 2025

Queerly Beloved: A Night Out With Femmes and Friends

 

A quick shout-out to Suite Bar and its "Femmes and Friends" comedy show, which Damian and I attended last night. Although we mainly went to see rising star Conor Janda -- hilarious as always -- the whole lineup was pretty entertaining, most notably Amy Cui, who had us dying! 


Find Amy HERE


Find Conor HERE


After his set we fanboyed over Conor, telling him how much we like his "Boys Club" web series, which you can watch HERE.


We’d never been to Suite Bar, which technically sits on the Upper West Side (109th and Amsterdam) but is a bit of a trek from our place near Lincoln Center. Still, it’s adorable -- super welcoming, with a big bar, comfy leather booths, karaoke nights, and the requisite drag shows. Not sure why it has two Instagram accounts, but you can find Suite Bar online HERE.


Note: Femmes and Friends happens the last Monday of each month -- mark your calendars -- and you can learn more HERE.